tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2761067917979137569.post3486695921670773482..comments2013-11-14T01:56:02.339-05:00Comments on Grief - Life During and After: Signs and Messages From Your Loved OneMonna Ellithorpehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17662768986379112333noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2761067917979137569.post-16579844622206832942010-06-30T15:23:02.838-04:002010-06-30T15:23:02.838-04:00Anonymous: Thank you for sharing your story with ...Anonymous: Thank you for sharing your story with us. Your brother in law just may not be receptive enough to believe that your husband is still with you. I, like you choose to believe that my husband comes to me all the time. <br /><br />Even coming close to 2 years since my dear husband left this earth, I still see and look for signs all of the time of him being with me. I still look for notes and things that I may have overlooked that he may have left for me also. It helps me cope and I'm sure it also does for you and a lot of other people. Take Care.Monna Ellithorpehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17662768986379112333noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2761067917979137569.post-84375379904493116322010-06-30T13:34:45.230-04:002010-06-30T13:34:45.230-04:00We have a bed that when you touch by headboard the...We have a bed that when you touch by headboard the light comes on, one night for no reason the light kept coming on, I would turn it off, and this happened like five times, I thought it was my husband telling me he made it and he is in peace. I told my brother-in-law but he said it was just a thing due to weather, but there was no storm or lightning. I still say my husband came to me. I have part of his ashes in a heart on the dresser. He died of diabetis complications but he was a US Navy veteran retired. He also left me a message on his computer that reads "Gone Home" which I found later.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2761067917979137569.post-29749567053920785582009-06-28T23:31:47.554-04:002009-06-28T23:31:47.554-04:00OJDesigns: Thank you so much for sharing your expe...OJDesigns: Thank you so much for sharing your experience with everyone. It seems to me that your daughter was very determined she was going to stay and let her presence be known and that she is okay.Monna Ellithorpehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17662768986379112333noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2761067917979137569.post-72134878621003653002009-06-28T22:29:41.428-04:002009-06-28T22:29:41.428-04:00The day of my daughters funeral a butterfly flew i...The day of my daughters funeral a butterfly flew in the house, it was early in the day. We couldn't get it to go outside, I worried it would die in the house. We tried to catch it and put it outside and couldn't do it. After the funeral we had a reception at the house and everyone commented on the butterfly, it was there, just there. When everyone left I got my son to try again to get it outside, it flew into the front window. He went over to it and it landed on his finger! It stayed there until he got outside with it. That will always be my sign that she is ok. I don't usually believe in signs like that, but that was just too profound.Cindy Coniamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12283771830065555510noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2761067917979137569.post-57648076733609827522009-05-22T18:31:29.208-04:002009-05-22T18:31:29.208-04:00I take any signs I can get that my dear husband is...I take any signs I can get that my dear husband is still with me. He used to play tricks on me and he still does. Lots of times things are moved or I can't find something and I know it has to be him letting me know he is still with me and watching over me. <br /><br />I think all of us can see some kind of signs from our loved ones if we are open minded enough to believe and I am. <br /><br />Thank you for the comments.Monna Ellithorpehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17662768986379112333noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2761067917979137569.post-17249514886100712702009-05-22T18:08:39.281-04:002009-05-22T18:08:39.281-04:00I didn't believe in an afterlife. The love of my l...I didn't believe in an afterlife. The love of my life passed away Feb 6th and just recently I've become supicious that someone is playing jokes on me, though I live alone and no one has been in the house. In the guest bathroom the towels on the towel rack appear in different positions every few days. I'm retired and inside the house 24 hours a day most days of the week. I never touch the towels in that bathroom unless some of the children come to visit, and that hasn't happened since the memorial services. The other thing is that, what I thought was just random thoughts about my wife seem to be more along the lines of communication with my wife, just like a two sided conversation. She has told me all kinds of interesting things. I still don't know what to make of it all. I'm pretty sure that I'm not crazy, at least not crazy with grief that would cause me to imagine these things. I'm old enough now though that I take most everything in stride and I'm not too worried about it one way or another. If it is legit, so be it. If it's my imagination, so what?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2761067917979137569.post-33781392983245317462009-04-17T08:15:00.000-04:002009-04-17T08:15:00.000-04:00Mona, I too have had signs. It only proves that th...Mona, I too have had signs. It only proves that there is life after death. A spiritual life. One that still shares in our daily life all the time. I for one get "these messages" all the time. I too have sensitivity to ESP as we used to call it and learned thru listening to other individuals how to spot them when they happen and thank God I have been given that special privledge to do it. My father comes to me in Gardenias, my mother and father in law, Cardinals. My hubby, music and much recently in my dreams. You go girl!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05856529816000163124noreply@blogger.com